While the choice is personal, a lot of us go through this debate. Infact, when my friend approached me with this question. I obviously gave her a go-ahead, being a mom of two kids, for me the equation was perfect. However, everyone may not agree to my choice and today at maaofallblogs we discover what other moms feel on Should we or should’nt you have two kids?Read more at my post on world of moms here
Raaji k says
Yes I too think about this a lot when my hubby says one child is enough..but my heart feels diffrent I think the second kid is not only for us it’s a blessing we give to our first kid! Being a twin myself I feel there is lots to learn from not only ones friends but also from our sibling bcoz not everyone is same or thinks same mostly so the excitement continues in their life’s..there are things I shared with my sibling and not my mom or dad and so I want my daughter to experience the joy of sharing also which teaches them a lot about what is actually sharing also! So it’s a BiG YES from my side to all mothers in doubt to go on for a second kid weather the hubby thinks diffrentake him agree and giv him warning either kid or every month holiday abroad jokes apart ; I end here with a positive note The more the métiergoodluck all!!
Prerna Sinha says
Raaji, go for it. As I can see you are already convinced. Best of luck to you :).
Lynne Huysamen says
The choice was made for me! 2 surprises and we have our little family. I wouldn’t have it any other way. They are 2 years apart, a handful and lots of work. But they are close and I am so glad my kids have siblings. I have 2 sisters and I couldn’t imagine life without them.
Prerna Sinha says
Me too…two boys ..5 years apart.It took me a while to get the hang of the first one to get to my next.But the best decision of my life