My cousin messaged me recently ,that she loved my blogs but now she is scared to have a baby! Oh, no! Dearies , that’s not the idea! I guess there is some wisdom in not sharing the truth of delivery, labor and first few days after childbirth. Babies are the most beautiful things that you will ever possess, they love you unconditionally and so will you,once you overcome the first three months.That is a teething phase ,but there is a teething phase in all new things that you venture, when you move to a new city, when you change jobs, when you get married and likewise. If it wasn’t so great,then would I dare to have a second one? I realised the difference in being prepared and unprepared for a baby is huge. Why do you think mothers say my second baby was easy? Because mentally they know the grind. My blog is to only share that knowledge.
So the question is why should you have the baby? The reasons for these are personal and varied.To complete your family, because it’s the right thing to do, for your old age,it makes a woman complete, you love children…..to each his own. Mine were not so different from these. Once you have children and only after you have had them around will you realise how beautiful it is to nurture this thing that you have created.The bond is unbreakable and so beautiful. Neither has someone loved you like this and nor will you love someone like this. Parents, husbands all take a backseat.
It’s fun to be around children, because of Eeshan I am actually getting to go to waterparks, gaming centers, even getting to buys toys that I craved for as a kid. Also to teach him I have to learn so many things(thank God there is a Google!). Ahaan is keeping me vigilant and helping me lose weight running around him(heheh!). I can’t explain the reasons much, as you can only experience all this when you have your own kids. But all I wanna say in the end is it’s totally worth it!
