Happiness Is Being Yourself

Life is never easy for women, we are expected to be multitaskers, manage our homes, our kids, work and while doing all this look picture perfect all the time. I remember a scene in ‘Sex and the city’ when Sarah Jessica Parker is dating Mr. Big and one night in his apartment she farted in the bed and was so embarrassed that she ran away and didn’t meet him for weeks. She reminded all single women  how important it is to be prim and proper even in the bed with their Bae. Almost, as natural as running around in heels around Manhattan. I thanked God a zillion time that men do not watch these series or else they would believe her too.

I remember watching so many romantic movies growing up where the actress would look like sleeping beauty in the bed and wake up looking like an angel and kind of set impossible standards for women to cope up with. Unluckily for us men watch these too and some of them actually expect us to wake up looking like this;

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Five impossible things women are expected to do in bed to wake up looking angelic;

Wipe our make-up, but oh wait, if we did wipe our make-up how are we going to wake up looking pretty?

Brush our teeth: No matter when we brush our teeth in the night when we wake up, our breath is always going to stink in the morning. It’s much easier to head to the bathroom early and maybe stick back into the bed before your partner wakes up. No pressure ;)!!

Moisturize all over and wake up smelling like a garden, I mean a man who is stupid enough to believe your body odor smells like that must be dumped right away or you are setting yourself up for disappointment.

Wear your hair down and wake up with beautiful flowing fresh-from-the-salon hair. So basically sleep straight, so not toss and turn, forget any antics in bed because it is just impossible to not tangle it while sleeping if you do move.

Meditate: Really? After a super hectic day and the one when your body is already dead from the pain from your periods all you can think of is to hit the bed and doze off, you are expected to calm your mind and meditate.

We are human beings and not super human. We have our bad days and who really cares while sleeping? Let’s just be women and trust me if your man loves you, he will pass you a hot water bag and maybe massage your back and feet and you will not care about you looking pretty the moment you wake up and that guy my lady is a keeper :)!!

Just like me the new Sofybodyfit overnight sanitary napkin shuns norms too! Unlike other napkins which tend to slim down at the back, this one has a wider hip guard and is really long. I don’t know why someone never thought of this. This makes life so convenient, especially in the night when you don’t have to keep tugging all night to ensure that there is no leakage from the back. It’s available in 2 sizes XXL – 350mm & XXXL – 420 mm to give you a choice like no other napkin. Plus, I like the whole shape maintenance concept, which basically keeps the pad flexible, so no matter how ugly you sleep, it adjusts to you :). How cool is that?